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Cunnilingus and Fellatio, a dying "specicies"?

According to a statistics done by German # only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (# for straight and # for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (# ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.

The actual graphs and tables can be found here: So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking # ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat # has happened to me. :-p And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me. :-)

I like to ask the whole # about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).

Roland Häder pinned item friendica

Any listening group/forum out there?

I wonder if there is any !listening group/forum out there? Because the old one seems to be closed down. Please re-share if you don't know!

Eine kleine Orientierungshilfe, um im Messenger-Dschungel nicht ganz verloren zu sein:

Messenger: Kriterien an Sicherheit und Datenschutz • Kuketz IT-Security Blog

Eine kleine Orientierungshilfe, um im Messenger-Dschungel nicht ganz verloren zu sein.

Danke an den Author. :-)

Why is Linux not using more RAM for caching?

I have this on my server:
___________total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:       7939312    6490588    1448724          0      66760     192064
-/+ buffers/cache:    6231764    1707548
Swap:     12485748     189256   12296492

So there is a 1 GB RAM (not much, I know) left but #Linux is not using it for caching which would greatly improve performance (it really does). vm.swappiness is 20 here.

Here are all cache settings:
# sysctl -a|grep cache
kernel.sched_domain.cpu0.domain0.cache_nice_tries = 1
kernel.sched_domain.cpu1.domain0.cache_nice_tries = 1
kernel.sched_domain.cpu2.domain0.cache_nice_tries = 1
kernel.sched_domain.cpu3.domain0.cache_nice_tries = 1
vm.drop_caches = 0
vm.vfs_cache_pressure = 100
fs.quota.cache_hits = 0
net.ipv4.rt_cache_rebuild_count = 4
fscache.object_max_active = 4
fscache.operation_max_active = 2

Which do I need to change (except adding more RAM but that costs me monthly more).
I have a Quad-Core server running this instance and some pages more. What would you recommend when it comes to process priorities? More prio on database or on webserver?

Zweifel an Belästigung von Mädchen in Köthen -

Na, war zu erwarten. #Foreigner-Bashing sollte wirklich mal aufhoeren, denn wir sind schliesslich alles Menschen.

Kein RSS bei den Krefelder Pinguinen

Da haben die #Krefeld #Pinguine mal ihre Homepage neu gemacht und sogar mit gezwungenem #SSL und was sieht man? Kein #RSS mehr moeglich. :-(

Wieso? Wollen die nicht, dass sich deren Nachrichten einfach im Internet verteilen oder sollen die nur ueber einen zentralisierten Kanal erreichbar sein?

Und oh, #ssllabs gibt denen eine B-Note: TLS_DHE_RSA_WITH_AES_256_GCM_SHA384 (0x9f) DH 1024 bits FS WEAK z.B. gibt es. Das sollten die mal ueberarbeiten.
Stimmt schon. :D So, Kontaktformular ist raus an die. Ich empfinde es halt als schade, wenn so etwas passiert, da sich so die Webseiten abkanzeln. Und im Zusammenhang mit #LSR wird das echt duester.
#LSR ist Leistungsschutzrecht, was sich die ganzen Verlage ausgedacht haben, um von z.B. #Google und allen anderen Geld erpressen zu koennen.

OTR feature in XMPP plugin spawn tons of sessions

I was able to message to myself over an other XMPP server. But setting up #OTR did fail in endless reloads of the page causing OTR to be re-initialized and another session being started.

How can I prevent this? #Pidgin is showing them all and seems not to work then.
@roland You prevent this by using #OMEMO instrad.

poller.php multiple launched, eating up CPU

I wonder if the poller is really needed or if somehow the cron jobs can be executed without it? I had setup as it should be:

*/10 * * * * cd ${HOME}/friendica/htdocs/ && /usr/bin/php include/poller.php

If I let it runs, multiple php processes are forked eating up my CPU and slowing down the server. Currently it seems to work without it (and much faster).
Maybe yours is better as it forks lesser processes. It was dirty hacking anyway. :)
It now seems to crash with "Terminated":

> cron_poller.sh: line 15: 32661 Terminated nice --adjustment=19 php ./include/poller.php

Zeile 15 ist genau der Befehl der hinter "Terminated" (TERM) steht.

XMPP plugin not working ???

I currently try to setup the XMPP plugin (jappixmini is not enabled). I have so far changed my ejabberd.cfg and made http-bind working (Apache2 config entry, really easy to setup).

Now I hang around with BOSH host (which address:port to enter?) and that the XMPP chat is not showing up. Any other things I need to change?
I mean BOSH host is same as http-bind URL. See resulting HTML output, which the JavaScript client will have to use.
Ist it now working with https://f.haeder.net/http-bind? It really should.
Yes, chat is working now. :-)
Oh, resizing windows causes text being marked. :-( #bug

Panikmache bei heise.de ? "Lücke" MySQL und Oracle fixt nicht schnell

Ich glaube, der Poster im Forum hat recht: nur Panikmache bei Heise.de. Ich habe mal fix die besagte Dabei geprüft und root besitzt sie:
-rw-r----- 1 root root 4602 Jul 26 00:37 my.cnf

Also alles ruhig bleiben und nur kurz prüfen ...
Allerdings hat die Datei bei mir nur die Rechte, weil ich für "Andere" sie entfernt habe.

"Genderisierung" - *Kopfkrampf*

Was für Mist steht denn hier? Die Kritik der Antwort finde ich richtig: #affig und #nervig ist es, ständig brav ein "-innen" anzuhängen. #aufarbeit
Ach, fuck. #tzpo : #Kotzkrampf soll es heißen.
Und dann muss es auch nicht mehr #versöhnen sondern #vertöchtern heißen, kommt so aus dem #Kabarett #AlmaHoppe.

Angst trotz Wohlstand -

Nicht nur Kluft, sondern auch der Kampf zwischen #Arm und #Reich ...

How to restore e.g. MP3 files from a FAT32-formatted hard drive with Linux

I'm currently rescuing files from a partly broken hard drive where the very early sectors are unreadable. It is a USB hard-drive ("mobile") from a DJ. So I will find it "easy" to search for #MP3 files (he doesn't use OGG).

First I tried to normally mount it, which fails due to the broken sectors 0-9 (which holds the required data). Also a fsck.vfat didn't work. So I had to install #myresuce and and #magicrescue.

I did it better in screens so I can leave them unattended:
screen -dmS myrescue myrescue /dev/sdb1 sdb1.bin

I had to wait ~ 10 minutes to start the next one:
screen -dmS magicrescue magicrescue -d sdb1/ -r mp3-id3v2 sdb1.bin

/dev/sdb1 is the USB drive and of course I needed to create ~/sdb1/ to have found files being written there.

Now there are a lot MP3 files but all 40 MB large. I will forward them to the DJ so he has to cut them to the right size.

I just thought you might be interested in before going to a "professional" #disk #rescue company.
I think it can be any file system that is not encrypted as they are being read sectory-by-sector and not file-by-file.

Why I don't like payed support #2

I currently face a #bug in #Payara that doesn't allow TABLE_PER_CLASS and I cannot change the database layout (as then the main program needs to be changed which involves a lot risky work).

I have filled out a bug report ...

... But they don't want to handle it. I guess I'm not alone with this bug. I don't like such "payment model" where paying customers are priotized. I for my projects provide unpriotized support for any one, unpayed and in my free time: My View - Mailer-Project Bug-Tracker
What do you think about such payment models? Good or bad?

2nd submit: better preview before test.
The case is closed, maybe someone else will pick it up? !java

DayOfWeek not persisted without some work ...

I currently get this when I try to deploy my project:
org.eclipse.persistence.exceptions.ValidationException Exception Description: The type [class java.time.DayOfWeek] for the attribute [endDay]on the entity class [class org.mxchange.jcontactsbusiness.opening_times.BusinessOpeningTimes] is not a valid type for an enumerated mapping. The attribute must be defined as a Java enum.. Please see server.log for more details.

I'm trying to fix this by writing a AttributeConverter<DayOfWeek, String>.
I have found in on #thoughts-on-java.org (I don't like to link there, credits (based on hint): Thorben Janssen

Thank you.
No, that was not working (somewhy). So I had to write an "own" #enumeration DayOfTheWeek based on StackOverflow user's work Lombo:

Oh, getting these:
Proxy Error

The proxy server received an invalid response from an upstream server.
The proxy server could not handle the request POST /common/applications/uploadFrame.jsf.

Reason: Error reading from remote server
If you have renamed your EJB's names don't forget to do a "Clean+Build" in your IDE and not just "Build" as this may leave some old stuff behind causing deployment problems.
Ah, the link didn't make it in: http://stackoverflow.com/questions/2243730/jpa-hibernate-embedded-and-enum
It is about #Hibernate and I use #EclipseLink here but still the enumeration can be used in #JPA to persist DayOfWeek "compatible" stamps.

apt-p2p - Ist this project dying?

On Fri, 19 Jul 2002 a user called "burris" has committed the first files for a pre-project. Now, 2016 almost nothing happens to it anymore. The author #CameronDale has seem to given it up and I have almost no time to continue on.

If you search for it: You find 2 projects, maybe indepently created.

So maybe this weekend or next weekend I try to merge them both into mine and notify them to merge back to have all efforts combined.

You can find mine here:
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