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Cunnilingus and Fellatio, a dying "specicies"?

According to a statistics done by German # only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (# for straight and # for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (# ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.

The actual graphs and tables can be found here: So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking # ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat # has happened to me. :-p And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me. :-)

I like to ask the whole # about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).

Roland Häder pinned item friendica

Any listening group/forum out there?

I wonder if there is any !listening group/forum out there? Because the old one seems to be closed down. Please re-share if you don't know!

Stuck together glass in porcelain

I currently have a glass stuck in a porcelain. I have already setup cold water in top glass and hot (boiling, I'm careful) around lower but still they remain stuck. Plus I added salt in upper (cold) glass. I got this (last) idea from a #youtube video with ID #HOglOnne3As which seems quite straight-forward but still no success here.

Any ideas? I cannot currently upload images, size limit of 780k exceeded but I set $a->config['system']['maximagesize'] = 2*1024*1024; which should be enough, right?

Strange #bug in #Friendica ... So you have to live with a link to my #nextcloud instance: https://cloud.mxchange.org/s/rnFtrpbQqAXx8O1
It is finally separated, luck with us. :-)
@Steffen K9 ???? das mit dem Hammer brauche ich zum Glueck nicht. Die Glaeser sind gluecklich voneinander getrennt. ;-)

Searx instance is working again

I have managed to bring back my #searx instance at back working again. I had updated my Apache installation to 2.4 and forgot to change the settings to Require all granted.

Feel free to use it (on your own risk, careful: adult content is possible to find).
Meine Searx-Instanz arbeitet per Standard-Einstellung mit POST-Anfragen und Image-Proxy, damit die IP des Nutzers über meinen Server verdeckt ist. Zudem loggen beide (Apache und uwsgi) nicht.
Ja, ist nicht böse gemeint. :-)

XMPP addon does no longer connect to ejabberd

@Friendica Support I had always a working XMPP instance on my friendica instance. Now it doesn't connect. I have enabled debug log in .htaconfig file but nothing is written there.

With pstree I can only see beam.smp with 18 beam.smp threads but no ejabberd_auth.php sub process which did happen before. strace tells me that it tries to read from 0 (stdin) so it seems to wait for input. Access rights and correct user/group are set (0700, ejabberd.ejabberd according to documentation). Yet still it isn't starting.

Any ideas what might cause this?
Have you changed the path to ejabberd_auth.php? It moved to "scripts".
No, I still have it in include but it did work before. Sure, I need to find some time for updating my instance ...
Then try at first a regular XMPP client to see where the problem is.
As I said, only beam.smp is visible in pstree view, no forked auth_ejabberd.php.
You are on the develop branch. When have you updated your system? Several weeks ago the script moved.
And no, it is not working. Not even a single debug message in ejabberd.log.
Okay, I have always updated ejabberd.cfg but ejabberd.yml is used. No wonder that auth_ejabberd.php was never loaded. Now it is loaded but still the same. I'll digg deeper for this ...
Please check via an external client.
Tried it with #gajim, no change. :-(
Somehow it listens only on IPv6 requests, which I surely not do (not now).
Okay, the private key part in ejabberd.pem was missing. Now I can connect and even with SSL.
Still nothing on friendica's side. It looks like no connect is going through. http-bind is available at https://f.haeder.net/http-bind and returns a 503?
Have a look at your system logfile (/var/log/user.log). There you should see some lines for "auth_ejabberd".
I have found out that ejabberd's http-bin was listening not on 127.0.0.1:5280 but instead on public IP. Maybe misconfiguration, still I'm getting a 502 on pointing my browser to https://f.haeder.net/http-bind

http-bind settings and listener

<IfModule mod_proxy.c>
<IfModule mod_proxy_http.c>
ProxyPass /http-bind http://127.0.0.1:5280/http-bind retry=0
</IfModule>
</IfModule>


And:

# netstat -lnp|grep 5280
tcp 0 0 127.0.0.1:5280 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN xxxxx/beam.smp
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Reocities - GeoCities reborn!

I have found #reocities, an attempt to reborn GeoCities: Currently I'm crawling it with my personal #YaCy cluster.

Quiet and calm office room at work ...

Today I have one of the very rare opportunities to have a relatively quiet and calm office room for myself, my workmate is ill and others are not in. Only sometimes the CEO comes in.

Will use that moment to program and focus more.
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