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Cunnilingus and Fellatio, a dying "specicies"?

According to a statistics done by German # only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (# for straight and # for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (# ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.

The actual graphs and tables can be found here: So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking # ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat # has happened to me. :-p And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me. :-)

I like to ask the whole # about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).

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Any listening group/forum out there?

I wonder if there is any !listening group/forum out there? Because the old one seems to be closed down. Please re-share if you don't know!

Problem with http-bind to XMPP server

I have xmpp-based chat enabled on this site where I currently have some trouble with. You can reach it here: https://f.haeder.net/http-bind

The upstream server behind it runs at and is configured as followed:
{5280, ejabberd_http, [captcha, http_put, http_poll, http_bind]}
and ...
port: 5280
ip: ""
module: ejabberd_http
"/websocket": ejabberd_http_ws
## "/pub/archive": mod_http_fileserver
web_admin: true
http_bind: true
## register: true
captcha: true
tls: true
certfile: "/etc/ejabberd/ejabberd.pem"

In /var/log/ejabberd/error.log I see tons of these messages:
2018-05-13 xx:xx:xx.xxx [critical]<0.2508.0>@extauth:loop:142 extauth script has exitted abruptly with reason 'normal'
FIXED!!! I had to set tls: false, restart ejabberd, then apache. #fixed
#TIL If you restart apache first, it won't work as ejabberd must be listening already when apache builds the proxy chain (which makes sense again). And yeah, having TLS on makes no sense. ;-)

Well, #shit-happens
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