According to a statistics done by German #Aerzteblatt only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (#Cunnilingus for straight and #Fellatio for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (#blowjob ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.
So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking #pussy ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat #cancer has happened to me. And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me.
I like to ask the whole #Fediverse about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).
@Friendica Support I had always a working XMPP instance on my friendica instance. Now it doesn't connect. I have enabled debug log in .htaconfig file but nothing is written there.
With pstree I can only see beam.smp with 18 beam.smp threads but no ejabberd_auth.php sub process which did happen before. strace tells me that it tries to read from 0 (stdin) so it seems to wait for input. Access rights and correct user/group are set (0700, ejabberd.ejabberd according to documentation). Yet still it isn't starting.
I have found out that ejabberd's http-bin was listening not on 127.0.0.1:5280 but instead on public IP. Maybe misconfiguration, still I'm getting a 502 on pointing my browser to https://f.haeder.net/http-bind