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Cunnilingus and Fellatio, a dying "specicies"?

According to a statistics done by German # only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (# for straight and # for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (# ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.

The actual graphs and tables can be found here: So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking # ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat # has happened to me. :-p And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me. :-)

I like to ask the whole # about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).

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Any listening group/forum out there?

I wonder if there is any !listening group/forum out there? Because the old one seems to be closed down. Please re-share if you don't know!

No performance improvement by memcache or redis?

I have now tried both, #memcache and #redis, to set single keys in cache. It seems both perform very poor compared to #in-progress caching.

So really no improvement if they are being used? And pipelining in redis won't help here much as I really have to "atomically" set/test/get key-value pairs.

So my in-progress cache as following seems to be the fastest:

function someCachedFooValue ($someValue) {
	if (!isset($cache[__FUNCTION__][$someValue])) {
		$cache[__FUNCTION__][$someValue] = doSomethingFooExpensive($someValue);

	return $cache[__FUNCTION__][$someValue];

Here I want to cache the value from the expensive (long-taking) function doSomethingFooExpensive() if it is is not here.

This way seems to be the fastest way, sadly.
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