According to a statistics done by German #Aerzteblatt only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (#Cunnilingus for straight and #Fellatio for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (#blowjob ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.
So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking #pussy ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat #cancer has happened to me. And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me.
I like to ask the whole #Fediverse about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).
Today the database server behind this and many other services died (or was killed) due to low-memory problems. When I SSH-ed in, it shows me this memory usage: total used free shared buffers cached Mem: 7939312 3764024 4175288 0 203592 1434224 -/+ buffers/cache: 2126208 5813104 Swap: 12485748 11742532 743216 Looks like a zombie were around? All other processes are consuming lesser memory. Now I run a swapoff -av && swapon -av to cleanup swap space.
A few days later it looks like this: swapoff: /dev/mapper/swap2: swapoff failed: Cannot allocate memory And: $ free total used free shared buffers cached Mem: 7939312 7649604 289708 0 228648 810520 -/+ buffers/cache: 6610436 1328876 Swap: 12485748 10485736 2000012 And again the database is filling up, htop reports 3493M for "RES" column. Biggest databases are Friendica and GNUSocial.
Looks like I have to reduce memory consumption by MySQLd (wheezy doesn't have #PHP7 and #MariaDB). Okay, for now I can live with it. I prefer a more bit older distribution but which is more stable (better for servers).