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Cunnilingus and Fellatio, a dying "specicies"?

According to a statistics done by German # only 51% of all German males are into giving oral sex (# for straight and # for gay/bisexual accumulated) while 56% are into receiving (# ) it. While for females it is even a little lesser, 48% are into receiving it while 45% are into giving it. As it seems, also lesbians are counted in here, but are a minor compared to straight females.

The actual graphs and tables can be found here: So far I can tell that there is no "disgusting" or "unhealthy" thing on giving Cunnilingus (in English, licking # ) simply because I have done it a lot on many different women and so far no tongue or throat # has happened to me. :-p And yes, beside that, there is no "fish shop" down there for me. :-)

I like to ask the whole # about this matter. Is that true with you? Disclaimer: Do not come up with some religious-nonsense or other hatred/disapproving/other nonsense here. I'm asking for a Yes or a No and if so, please more details (being passive/active).

Roland Häder pinned item friendica

Any listening group/forum out there?

I wonder if there is any !listening group/forum out there? Because the old one seems to be closed down. Please re-share if you don't know!

Title, address, salutation, gender?

What is right for "Mr." and "Mrs."? Gender surely could mean the sex, so also I then need to add trans-genders, gay, lesbian to my #Java enumeration.

But I really more mean "Mr." and "Mrs." here, which the German language has Anrede for. The dictionary gives me basically (a few more, but I can really rule them out) these 3 words:

1) title
2) address
3) saluation

So how should I rename my Java package and enumeration? Currently I call it "Gender".
For statistical purposes maybe. But then #gender is much better as male/female is to much black-white-looking. Okay, currently I use it in mails to greet the user: "Hello Mr. John Doe, bla bla foo bar."
You don't really need to ask the gender either, it could just be "Hello John Doe" and it wouldn't change a thing.

And statistics on gender are both questionable and completely useless given the non-quantifiable nature of it.
Maybe I think about it and remove it. It is an optional field (NULL-able) anyway.
Still thank you for the input. :-)
You're welcome, sorry if I came out a little dry, this is an issue that recently and unexpectedly became close to me and I still have trouble processing the anger regarding the current injustice/ignorance/rejection towards wide-spectrum gender.
Sure, that is why I don't like male/female-thinking as it is to much black&white. And also that is why I like #Friendica as it shows tolerance (it origins from Latin word tolerare : https://dela.dict.cc/?s=tolerare ) towards many other genders.
My current choice is personalTitle (entity's property name) as there is also academicTitle. Okay, Germans writing English. ;-)
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