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Women Against Feminism Suzanne Venker Exposing Feminist Lies

As you know #FOXNews is being alt-right, this one was clearly so much true about today's modern "feminism". I really felt touched by her words and I'm not right (and maybe not so very left) at all.

https://invidio.us/watch?v=_5inV61L9II

I found the video at "Feminism Debunked" and I know it is about today's modern "feminisn". And oh, she wrotes on her website 7 reasons why she is not a feminist and the first is, that she loves men.

I know this comes controversal as most people blindly believe that feminists are loving men and are the "good women" and "all should be feminists".

So to say it from my point of view as a heterosexual man, I'm NOT a feminist because I don't hate myself. And I don't hate women.
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"Wake women destroy relationships due to too high expectations": https://invidio.us/watch?v=J_5rThZj1Is
And that is what exactly happened here, my now ex-wife did raise her expectations further and further, even when she was not realizing it, but I do now.
"Viper Sword - Why I'm NOT a feminist' - https://invidio.us/watch?v=PsllIDQDZf0


Blockieren von rechtmaessig angemeldeten Demonstrationen

Rudolf Fissner auf der #TAZ:
Ich möchte in keinem Staat leben, in dem das Blockieren von Demonstrationen erlaubt ist. Mit Antifa hat das nichts zu tun. Blockieren von Demonstrationen ist autoritärer Sch.

Genau das ist es, was mich so sauer aufstoßen lässt, wenn es um die #Antifa geht. Nur um es mal ganz deutlich zu sagen: Das (Blockieren von Demonstrationen, deren Aussage einem nicht in den Kram passt) mag Otto-Normalbürger nicht und versteht es auch nicht. Damit sorgt welche Gruppierung auch immer genau für das Gegenteil (beim Otto-Normalbürger), was damit eigentlich erreicht werden sollte. Hier in diesem Falle sind es die "fundamentalistischen" Christen, die die "Bösen" sind. Sie haben halt eine andere Meinung, auch wenn sie der der "Feministen" (nicht wirklich echte) nicht entspricht. Versucht doch mal eine sachliche Diskussion zusammen, also so einen Bockmist zu bauen.

Kleines, passendes Zitat am Rande:
Bei Hühnern heißt es Omelett, bei uns Menschen Abtreibung.
- #GeorgeCarlin

Nur um es klar zu stellen: Ich bin sehr wohl gegen Faschisten, für solch Aktionen, egal von wem oder gegen wem habe ich aber auch etwas.
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I just watched Ice Twister 2 - Arctic Blast

My goodness, I just finished watching "Ice Twister 2 - Arctic Blast" and it was really a cold blast I got from t. Class-B? Far from it, maybe Class-J or K. I watched many other #Class-B movies and even some from Uwe #Boll are worth your time watchen, like Rampage 1+2 (but not really 3). Or how about movies like #TheyLive from John #Carpenter?

Sure these movies cannot be compared to high-budget movies, also known as #Class-A movies as they (B) have much lesser funding available and struggle to get good actors and actresses on board. And even sometimes they - like Independance Day 2 - feel almost like Class-B movies.

But let's get back to IT2:AB. It has almost no connection to the previous installment and more felt like a much cheaper off-shoot from the original Ice Twisters movie. So what's the punshline?

IT2:AB gives you a cold (bad) impression of a what-could-be-done-much-better movie. Bad #CGI: very bad explosing of the airplane, too fast retracting ice in the end scenes, only to name a few) and for the German lip-synchronized version: bad voice acting. I don't know about the English movie, but I would be surprised if the original acting and "one-liners" would feel better.

All in all: Not worth your time!
PS: I'm not a Boll advocate.

Download Nextcloud through BitTorrent tracker

Hello @Nextcloud community,

I want to let you know that the #Nextcloud 21 update is now available on my #BitTorrent tracker available for distributed download.

You can also track it to any open tracker and alternatively to this one.

Torrent for BZIP2 file: nextcloud-21.0.0.tar.bz2
Torrent for ZIP file: nextcloud-21.0.0.zip

PS: I don't know what causes the delay on start.

Worker queue in admin area get's to full? Please check worker_queues

I have observed here on my Friendica node, that the worker queue gets fuller and fuller over time and I was really wondering why is that so. I checked the queue table and found no real issue with it.

Then I checked throught the PHP code and also saw no logic mistakes (related to this, e.g. in Friendica\Core\Worker class).

Here are some typical lines at the start of my investigation:
2021-02-20T23:24:16Z worker [NOTICE]: Load: 4.34/50 - processes: 409/4/115055 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:1, 20:0/6, 30:0/6, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 4/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"343740","process_id":17119}
2021-02-20T23:24:17Z daemon [NOTICE]: Load: 4.34/50 - processes: 409/4/115056 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:1, 20:0/7, 30:0/6, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 5/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"163d4b","process_id":17116}
2021-02-20T23:24:18Z worker [NOTICE]: Load: 4.34/50 - processes: 409/4/115056 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:1, 20:0/7, 30:0/6, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 5/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"343740","process_id":17119}
2021-02-20T23:24:19Z worker [NOTICE]: Load: 4.36/50 - processes: 409/5/115057 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:2, 20:0/7, 30:0/7, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 6/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"3f65a2","process_id":17123}
2021-02-20T23:24:19Z worker [NOTICE]: Load: 4.36/50 - processes: 409/5/115057 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:2, 20:0/7, 30:0/7, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 6/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"343740","process_id":17119}
2021-02-20T23:24:20Z daemon [NOTICE]: Load: 4.36/50 - processes: 409/5/115057 - jpm: 6/4/8 (0:1, 20:1/7, 30:0/7, 40:3/115452) - maximum: 4/5 [] - {
"file":"Worker.php","line":782,"function":"tooMuchWorkers","uid":"163d4b","process_id":17116}


As you can see maximum: 4/5 and even maximum: 6/5 is present. So I checked at the code where the 5 is coming from and I found it here:
$queues = DI::config()->get("system", "worker_queues", 10);

$maxqueues = $queues;

Line 681 in src/Core/Worker.php

So I checked that configuration entry in config table and ... Bingo! There it is: 5. I then disabled debug log again (not to have the hard drive flooded with debug log) and restarted it.

Since then the daemon is working happily on the queue. So as it seems to me, there are indeed more queues (spawned PHP processes) needed to work on a public Friendica instance. And this one here has only a few local users while one (me) is most of the time active.
There is progress, yesterday at ~23:00 I had 115k+ entries in queue table, now it is down at 109k+ records. So within 7 hours 6k records have been worked on and only a minor of (12) have been defered.
After 13 hours later: 430 - 91596

Ich glaube, Vodafone verarscht mich?

Eigentlich lief es ja seit Jahren gut, dass ich andere DNS-Server als die von #Vodafone eingestellt habe, z.B. auch meinen Server seit einiger Zeit. Nun aber ist es eben zweimal hintereinander - und das war nicht das erste Mal - vorgekommen, dass urplötzlich die #Namensauflösung nicht mehr funktionieren möchte, oder soll.

Ich war gezwungen, dann einmal die Standard-DNS-Server (also von Vodafone) zu nehmen, die Einstellung zu speichern, meine DNS-Server ("Andere DNSv4-Server verwenden") auswählen und schon klappte es wieder.

Liebe anderen #Follower da draußen, kennt ihr das Problem auch? Ich glaube, das bettelt hier nach Kündigung. Was ich nicht kapiere ist, wieso ich dann überhaupt noch in der Router-Software (Fritz! Box) dies abändern darf, wenn es doch eh nur zeitweise klappt?
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Admin Istrator friendica (via ActivityPub)
@Roland Häder Habe in der Fritte mehrere sichere DNS-Server eingetragen und aktiviert. Nach Tagen und Wochen (Dauerbetrieb) gibt es dann für manche Domains keine Auflösung mehr. Bisherige Lösung: Abschalten der SecDNS und wieder anschalten.

Da es mehrere SecDNS sind, könnte es dort ein defekter Dienst sein, doch eig. soll die FB die ja im RoundRobin nutzen und dann wäre das Problem mit der nächsten Anfrage weg. Tut es aber nicht. Von daher habe ich das Prob. noch nicht genauer eingekreist.
@Admin Istrator @MasterTux 🐧 ✅ Danke erst mal für die Antworten. Ich werde mir mal ein paar Gedanken machen und dann mal gucken, was ich mache. Mit Anrufen bei Vodafone habe ich nur mittel-prächtige Erfahrungen gemacht, soll nicht heißen, dass sie es nicht "gelöst" haben, aber das Problem (zwei Arten von Trennungen) ist noch immer da.

T-Shirt bought a few weeks ago

I have now decided to picture myself (and I currently still wear it) with a #t-shirt I have bough a few weeks ago from #spreadshirt shop:

Image/photo

#eatpussy #vegetarism
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
"polarizing", 'feminazi", "if you control language, you control thought", I feel like I'm talking with a centre-right propaganda video through you and I couldn't care less about these provocative and wrong talking points.

So I'm going to leave a few parting words before bowing out:
  • The specific idea developed in Georges Orwell's 1984 that controlling language is controlling thought is utterly wrong. Language is what people are making of it, and thought is otherwise influenced by a number of other things, like power dynamics, feelings and culture, language probably being pretty low on the list. We come up with words to describe novel thoughts all the time, so language hardly constraints thought.
  • Feminism is explicitly about "respect[ing] women, want[ing] to have oppression stopped and equality for them". Any additional meaning you tacked on that word shows your thoughts about feminism have been negatively influenced by something or someone else. Your denial of being a feminist sounds like someone saying "I eat meat but I'm not a carnivore because it's too polarizing".
  • Nobody is actually forcing you to use gender-neutral language, recognize foreplay as sexist, or not wear your provocative shirts. However if you feel bad because this kind of ideas are just floating around, then you probably have some internal reckoning to do.
  • Whatever you do with other people and with women specifically is fine and your own business as long as boundaries have been clearly set.
Roland Häder doesn't like this.
Feminazi is an alias for the more extreme/radical offshoot of feminism. I know very well that it (feminism) is about stopping oppression and wanting equality for women and men. I still don't want to be labeled or categorized as feminist only because of I respect women and want equality for all humans and oppression all together.

I don't want to have female oppression, I don't want to have male oppression, any one of not being heterosexual shall also not be oppressed. This is what I want and that goes far beyond only being against oppression of woman (which is good but still not enough). Let's end oppression all together!

Polarized thinking is like this: If you are not for (positive) feminism, you must be a woman-hater. This is thinking in two colors, binary states while life is never binary or black/white or red/green.

Yes, my T-Shirt may provoke some people, That is fine, at least they talk and think about the topic at hand: #Cunnilingus Which is is so important to nearly all women. I have been to a sexual consultant and she (not he) said it, that most women want it, they can relax, be themselves, enjoy the pleasure given to then. Exactly that is what I love so much about it.
Ha ha! Nice #tpzo females of course!
#tpzo
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
I know what "feminazi" stands for, I still thinks it's inappropriate to use that term.

I'll use my comparison with food diet again: you are saying you are an omnivore, and you don't like to be called a carnivore. But you eat meat, which constitutes being a carnivore. You don't eat only meat, granted, but "carnivore" is still more accurate to describe what you're doing than "not being a carnivore".

Being a feminist doesn't mean you aren't also anti-racist and LGBT-friendly. But explicitly "not being a feminist" has a special negative meaning that doesn't even approach what you are describing about being against all oppressions. Just take the label, it accurately describes a part of what you claim to stand for, and it will occur less confusion than rejecting it altogether.
I still don't want to be labeled or categorized. This is what social therapists warn about, that humans start to categorize other humans. Just be a human. And I'm ~80% #vegetarian and ~20% #vegan because I mostly eat vegetarian and very less vegan (still I like vegan a lot). But I stopped eating meat. I could eat it by just entering a Kebab shop and order myself one. But I don't want it. :-)
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
It's fine if you don't want to be labeled or categorized but you can't prevent other people from doing so. Categorization isn't inherently bad, it's what people do with it that can be bad. But then it isn't categorization anymore, it's discrimination.
Yes, true. And discrimination goes in both directions. I think I bring back the first T-Shirt and pullover at some point and let them criticize me as much as they want. Just as I said, at least they talk and think about it. :-) Mission accomplished!
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
Here you go!
Then how should we call a #feminazi instead? Real feminists are clearly against that those people are being called feminists, too. So 3rd-wave-feminists? Or man-hating-lesbians? Well, not all really hate men and not all are lesbians despite being both at the same time.

So how should we call them then? Okay, cellular entities. ;-)
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
Just don't call them anything. Please follow your own desire not to be labeled or categorized and extend this courtesy to other people.
And how is this related?

Blocking people in the Fediverse

As you might have noticed, I have been called insecure about my #sexuality while I'm very much secure about (I know what I want and I know what I don't want). From today on, I will block all these idiots, calling me insecure about my sexuality or that I have an "odd opinion" about it.
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Studie zu Rassismus in der Polizei: Thema glatt verfehlt


CSU-Innenminister Seehofer will in Studien die Polizei durchleuchten lassen – stellt aber die falschen Fragen
Studie zu Rassismus in der Polizei: Thema glatt verfehlt

Schufa will Zugriff auf Kontoauszüge: Die Allesfresserin


Die Schufa will künftig auswerten können, was Kund:innen wofür ausgeben. Auf freiwilliger Basis, betont sie. Dreist ist die Idee trotzdem.
Schufa will Zugriff auf Kontoauszüge: Die Allesfresserin

Gericht lehnt Freilassung ab: Assange bleibt weiter in Haft


Ein Londoner Gericht lehnte am Mittwoch einen Antrag ab, den Wikileaks-Gründer gegen Kaution auf freien Fuß zu setzen. Es bestehe Fluchtgefahr.
Gericht lehnt Freilassung ab: Assange bleibt weiter in Haft

Deutschlands gescheiterte Strompolitik: Lähmender Zentralismus


Die Politik lässt bei der Energiewende Bürgern und Unternehmen wenig Spielraum. Die skandinavischen Länder machen da vieles besser.
Deutschlands gescheiterte Strompolitik: Lähmender Zentralismus

Watching scammers doing their dirty work

Ever want to watch scammers doing their dirty work and hear their laughs at depressed people? Don't miss this small series!

#OpenPGP in #Thunderbird https://lwn.net/Articles/832183/ #encryption #mozilla #privacy


Points of view
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#cartoon by Miguel Morales #Madrigal (Cuba)


Info bzgl. Kontaktanfragen


Liebe Leute in der #Fediverse .

herzlich Willkommen auf meinem neuen Account/Profil hier auf dem Friendica-Knoten von anonsys.net.

Ich freue mich wirklich über jede Kontaktanfrage von euch und nehme diese in der Regel auch an. Die Anfragen die ich nicht annehme sind die, bei denen nichts im Profil steht. Wieso? Ganz einfach, weil ich gerne wüsste wer mich da kontaktiert.
Bin ja schließlich neugierig. 😉

Also entweder etwas bei euch im Profil hinterlassen oder nicht böse sein, wenn ich diese Anfragen dann ablehne.

#Friendica #Diaspora #Mastodon #Pleroma #Hubzilla #miteinander
So in der Art handhabe ich das auch: Keine Infos, noch nicht mal Tags oder gar ein einizger Post, abgelehnt/ignoriert. Leider zu oft schon passiert.

I have now released all screenshots from my #Quora days on my Nextcloud instance: I don't want to offend anyone but also don't apologize about the #heterosexuality I'm currently living and feeling fulfilled in.

All screenshots
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