Sorry for my English audience but I decided to make this episode in German language.

Die erste Aufnahme mit Webcam, gerichtet auf mich und leider war das ganze Layout durcheinander. Keine Ahnung, was #OBS dort durcheinander gebracht hat. Ungefaehr 7 GB Aufnahme in voller Qualitaet (kommt so direkt aus OBS heraus) sind leider vergeigt. Das Spiel war die ganze Zeit nach rechts unten in die Ecke verschoben und das moechte ich keinem anbieten.

Diese Episode war mal zur Abwechselung auf deutscher Sprache. Mittlerweile habe ich wieder vergessen, was ich dort alles gemacht habe und meine alten Episoden sehe ich mir nur selten selbst an. Also viel Spass!

Zum Download

PS: Der Web-Player kann offensichtlich nicht Matroska-Videos abspielen. Ich habe daher mal den Download aktiviert, uebertreibt es aber nicht, 10 TB Datenvolumen sind schnell aufgebraucht und dann darf ich zahlen.

[ CA_default ]
dir = /etc/ssl/zulu289 # Where everything is kept
certs = $dir/certs # Where the issued certs are kept
database = $dir/zulu289.index # database index file.
new_certs_dir = $dir/newcerts # default place for new certs.
certificate = $dir/certs/ca.pem # The CA certificate
serial = $dir/zulu289.serial # The current serial number
crl = $dir/crl.pem # The current CRL
crlnumber = $dir/crlnumber # the current crl number must be
private_key = $dir/private/ca/zulu289-ca-key.pem # The private key
default_days = 3650 # how long to certify for
default_md = default
policy = policy_match

[ req ]
default_bits = 8192
default_keyfile = cloud-key.pem
distinguished_name = req_distinguished_name

[ ca ]
default_ca = CA_default

[ req_distinguished_name ]
countryName = DE
countryName_default = DE

stateOrProvinceName = Northrhine-Westphalia
stateOrProvinceName_default = Northrhine-Westphalia

localityName_default = Krefeld

0.organizationName = Roland Häder
0.organizationName_default = Roland Häder

organizationalUnitName = private
organizationalUnitName_default = private

commonName = cloud.mxchange.org
commonName_default = cloud.mxchange.org

emailAddress = webmaster@mxchange.org
emailAddress_default = webmaster@mxchange.org

#unstructuredName = An optional company name

[ server ]
basicConstraints=CA:FALSE
nsCertType = server
nsComment = "OpenSSL Generated Server Certificate"
subjectKeyIdentifier=hash
authorityKeyIdentifier=keyid,issuer:always

[ client ]
basicConstraints=CA:FALSE
nsCertType = client
nsComment = "OpenSSL Generated Client Certificate"
subjectKeyIdentifier=hash
authorityKeyIdentifier=keyid,issuer:always
keyUsage = nonRepudiation, digitalSignature, keyEncipherment

[ policy_match ]
countryName     = match
stateOrProvinceName = match
organizationName    = match
organizationalUnitName  = optional
commonName      = supplied
emailAddress        = optional

I would like to introduce you to my upcoming series of playing #Factorio under Linux. I'm exclusively around with #Linux for now over 20 years and I'm happy to say that it was largely a success - honestly.

So here are my first episodes shared on my #Nextcloud instance for free downloading.

However, please be nice! The total size of the 1080p version (maximum resolution) is already +18 GB large and thats only "one" episode ... So please download with respect to my limited bandwidth of my server: You are not the only one utilizing my server's bandwidth. I have 10TB/month included in my contract and every additional GB must be payed extra and I don't get any money back from these downloads + I donate to the @FSFE every year + I don't ask for a donation, but you can if you wish. Just ask me for methods.

And for later episodes, I may have to cleanup some old episodes as also disk space is not bottom-less here. 2x1 TB in a RAID1 is already almost full:

me@zulu289:~$ df
Filesystem     1K-blocks      Used Available Use% Mounted on
udev             3914372         0   3914372   0% /dev
tmpfs             792044      1600    790444   1% /run
/dev/md2         9712160   7731828   1463932  85% /
tmpfs               5120         0      5120   0% /run/lock
tmpfs            1584080         0   1584080   0% /dev/shm
/dev/sda1          91387     38001     46484  45% /boot
/dev/md3       950374844 559739048 342336464  63% /var
tmpfs            3960204        60   3960144   1% /tmp
me@zulu289:~$

This server (zulu289) holds all (!) I do on my server:
* Tracker for FLOSS: tracker.mxchange.org (primary FlightGear Flight Simulator's GIT repository)
* Debian-multimedia mirror: debian.mxchange.org/
* Databases for all my instances I'm running + full SQL dumps from them, e.g. Nextcloud, this very Friendica instance and GNUSocial are the most demanding databases:

root@zulu289:/var/backups/dumps# ls -l friendica*31* social_mailer-2021-01-31.sql.bz2 owncloud-2021-01-31.sql.bz2 full-backup-2021-01-31.sql 
-rw------- 1 root root 13708573349 Jan 31 07:48 friendica-2021-01-31.sql.bz2
-rw------- 1 root root    50290723 Jan 31 09:33 friendica_dir-2021-01-31.sql.bz2
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 18307805562 Jan 31 06:42 full-backup-2021-01-31.sql
-rw------- 1 root root    22672102 Jan 31 09:33 owncloud-2021-01-31.sql.bz2
-rw------- 1 root root   118700237 Jan 31 09:38 social_mailer-2021-01-31.sql.bz2
root@zulu289:/var/backups/dumps#

And maybe more I forgot to mention. :)

I have found out that for the default directory at
the timeout of one second is simply to short. I have raised it's minimum value now to 3 seconds.

Plus I replaced '\Friendica\Some\Foo' with \Friendica\Some\Foo::class so your used IDE/PHP editor can find it easier + it must really be there.

Pull-request is out:
github.com/friendica/friendica…

This evening I have again one of my favorite meals on my desk:

#Tortelloni from a local supermarket which has spinach inside and a spicy tomato-cream, easily done: Tomato mark/paste, water, salt, black pepper spice, paprika spice, some red-chilli spice and basilica spice. Mix all together so it will become creamy!

Enjoy your meal!

I'm done with that nonsense of bashing this and that:

• No #boobs-bashing, every adult #boobs are beautiful!
• No #pussy-bashing, every adult #pussy is beautiful!
• No #penis-bashing, every adult #penis is beautiful!
• No #browser-bashing, every #browser brings you into the Internet!
• No #car-bashing, every #car brings you from A to B.

I'm really done with that. I saw it on #GirlsAskGuys again. I could continue on the list. Feel free to add more.

About 2 weeks ago I uploaded a video about my free opinion about the #LGBTQ community. I said it there clearly, in reference to a question on #girlsaskguys that I only support them as far as human rights goes. Surely I also mean local rights for everybody has.

So why should I support any further rights than already given (in Germany at least, where I live). I don't live in an other country where rights are restricted to only straight couples and I found that NOT right but again: Why should I support their rights while I'm straight?

Sure my video came out of a mood caused by the GaG community (there are a lot a hating people heating up discussions and I blocked there many of those, insulting me and my girlfriend (accusation of "old-man-fetish" to her and that I cannot satisfy my girlfriend sexually when I'm getting older or that I'm feminine when I show emotions to her).

I sent them (peertube.social team) a video message (they never downloaded it) and now I got this back:

Hi,

Your ban is final, you can apologize, beg or call us snowflakes as much as you want, we will not change our decision. I will not read any more of your messages.

XXX

My email to them follows:

Dear PeerTube.social team,

I like to know which clip (of my last 2) have been found homophobic because I'm not hating any kind of genders. And I would like to address you to a series of videos where I'm stating it very clearly. If LGBTQ people cannot (especially LGT) cannot handle the truth, that their DNA will die with them, it says they are insecure about themselves and need to first familiarize with being a LGT. Sure, simply most don't care but I have a right to say my opinion about it, what it really means to be LGT (no own descendants together).

Or did you find it homophobic when I just add some fun (didn't notice me laughing?) in it by repeating what Al Bundy said his entrance door when a gay ringed the bell? Am I really not allowed to add some fun to it by quoting comedians? Did they feel butt-hurted when they watched it? This is generally a problem today, I guess, that "Political Correctness" is at least trying to establish itself as a norm. Sure we had PC before and fat/gender-shaming was also not right there but in comedy it is okay.

Sure, I'm not a comedian but still I am allowed to make some funny quotes such as those from the character Al Bundy.

If that is really a problem here, then sorry you are snowflakes and I have to move on and publish them somewhere else.

Best regards,
Roland Haeder

Sure, I respect it that they have storage limits and that it is their instance but at least hear me out! I'm not homophobic when I just don't support special rights for about 4.5-5% of whole population. It is their thing what they do in the bedroom and I said it there very clearly.

I guess people cannot accept other's opinions when it doesn't fit their agenda.

I'm for a 3rd time with a foreigner woman into a long-distant relationship. The first 2 ended both in a marriage and both ended in divorce due to interference/confluence from my parents and some friends (also one's religion caused interference). The first two were from #Philippines while the third is from #Kenya and I dated her on #OkCupid first.

There I noticed a few things. The first thing you might come across in such relationships is #trust , which is actually a key for any serious/close relationships and and second is #communication . The third one is maybe only typical for distant relationships which is patience. It might become an issue when trust is low because you simply cannot look there 24/7 what is happening there but sure the same with physical relationships, like having your love-partner next to you and when you go to work you need trust in him/her.

Patience plays a very important role with distant relationships because simply maybe of different time-zones (Germany/Philippines is 6-7 hours distant, while Kenya is 2 hours away from Germany, both in advance). So you need to wait/sleep longer until your distant partner is waking up again. But yet still you might not be able to talk to him/her.

For my Kenyan girlfriend, she lives a humble life in a village and needs to bring her smartphone to a charging station where then I have to wait for finishing loading. First it was not so easy and also because of Internet is very "broken" (disconnects very often) there. So it wasn't that easy to trust that she is not "ghosting" me, actually the network has disconnected her again due to weak connectivity.

I then found myself often wondering, why she is suddenly not replying and I become feeling worried about it. But I later learned that everything was okay and now it is no longer an issue to me.

Yet still we both have a (currently) separate life, like she needs to help her mother out with their farm while I (now) have a work that keeps me away from home for a longer time. In the evening we both find again some time together where I devote a lot time (highest priority) into chatting and talking with her over the Internet (#Linphone ). Also #Nextcloud comes very handy here because we can securely exchange pictures about many things.

So to summon up, my experiences are good into #LDR with foreigners from so-called "third-world or developing countries". Sure I need to be cautious due to gold-digging habits but so far she didn't gave me that kind of feeling and she keeps her relationship low-profile to her parents (as many questions may come, including financial) and so I keep her away from my parents as they may start interfering with our early relationship. We might trust each other but I currently have revoked #trust into my mother with my relationships as she has messed up my previous relationships with messages on #Whatsapp and #SMS to my previous wives (sent behind my back about myself in the out-dated view of my mother).

I won't repeat that mistake I made so now I talked openly to my girlfriend about the "problems" or "issues" I have with my parents (that they are complicated and #asexual and begged at me for my then-girlfriend's phone number). I cannot sleep well when I know my mother can send messages behind my back to my distant girlfriend and even when she is here. That trust to her (my mother) is currently fully revoked and may not be restored in the near future.

So that is what you have to watch out when it comes to relationships in distance: a lot trust, very good and open communication and a lot patience that he/she has a currently more important matter to attend to and that is his/her currently separated own life. And surely every outside influence may cause more trouble when you don't have built up much trust into each other! I still trust my mother generally, but not into my relationships. I want to let more time (years) pass until that will be restored. For now, I may allow a "proxified" communication between them (mother/girlfriend) so I can directly control and monitor which messages are going out and which not (to each other). Yet still I may not allow my mother directly communicating with my girlfriend so quickly again for the fear of loosing my relationship again.

Also remember to maintain some kind of distant intimacy with your love-partner like sharing pictures (again trust is needed to do that) as this gives you some kind of distant-feeling of being intimate with your partner.

My parents may have helped me financially out but that does never give them permission to influence and mix themselves into my relationship, never! And this is what you (being poor) have to make clear to your "helping" relatives as well, financial help is fine but interfering with your relationship (to your love-partner) is never fine.